Great Relationship #4
A relationship is formed when two people become one in heart, mind, body and soul – a couple. While this is the goal and this is what most people truly believe is best, it is difficult because of the fact that there are still two physical and emotional individuals involved. This process of becoming one can only happen when both people are ready to ease up on needing things as an individual and see the bigger picture of giving of ourselves to your spouse what they need. This is a change in thinking more than anything else where your spouse is considered in your actions and decisions.
A great relationship tip is to keep your emotional intimacy close by sharing your inner thoughts with each other. That way when you have had an argument or know that one is about to take place you can talk it out before it ignites. Discuss why a certain thing that was said or done made you upset and how you wish it would be handled in the future. Don’t make it personal or accuse someone of being out to get you, just let them know that it made you feel bad or upset and you would like it to be handled different in the future.
In keeping your relationship close and connected you will become more as a couple that you never knew or thought possible before in your life. This could defuse a great many arguments before they even happen and make both people more likely to enjoy the little things on a daily basis. In the end, the payoff for achieving this type of approach has in mutual respect and understanding can’t be understood in any way, shape or form unless you try it yourself.
