Relationship Do’s

So many times we focus on the negative habits with the ones we love. We get into a routine of pointing out the flaws. We need to stop ourselves from this pattern. This is one thing that pushes the one you love farther away from you. The fact is what we really want is connection and acceptance. We want to bring the other person closer to us.

Try these things everyday:

Start out each day with a kind word before each of you goes out the door.

Send a text saying that you were thinking about them.

Make sure that when you see each other for the first time at the end of the day, you take the time to embrace and connect. Everything else can wait.

At the end of the evening say something positive such as I really appreciate the help you gave me tonight or thank you for listening to me – I really needed that.

Just hold hands, touch toes, connect physically in some way. The sense of touch is so powerful and can heal hurts and bring us so much closer.

Don’t accept settling into a pattern or routine everyday. Mix things up. Be playful, Seductive. Exciting. New.

Keep the intimacy alive!