Being who You Are – Especially With The One You Love

Speak Your Truth

Nothing is more important to any relationship that exists or ever existed before in mankind than being who you are in your relationship.  Sure, everyone will tell you that love and respect trump all in a relationship, but being who you are in a relationship will always help in the strength of your bond.  This is not to say this concept in a selfish way, being who you are in a relationship benefits your partner much more than you.

If you are not being who you are in your relationship then you are, in effect, lying to your partner about who you are and what your relationship is about.  Your friends and family will start to grow concerned and tired of your attitude and personality and wonder what happened.  This will only come back to haunt your partner and your relationship.

Being who you are in your relationship will quell your family and friends concern that exists at the beginning of any relationship.  The concern that anyone has when they know a loved one has the potential of being hurt in any way.  If your family and friends see that you are who you always have been then they will not worry about you any longer.

Once you are comfortable being who you are in a relationship your partner will get the best opportunity to see who it is they are committing to.  When this happens, your relationship gains the wonderful ability to make it through all rocky times. Besides, that is excaxtly who they fell in love with in the first place.

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